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What Good Women Really Want To Know

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Nothing more surely cultivates and embellishes a man than association with refined and virtuous women.

Monogamous men do exist but for the most part, most of my experience is that men whether they're

married or in relationships are moving around still having some fun. Men are out on the

street telling random women the truth. Most women want to hear the truth but

they're very uncomfortable with the truth and the way they react and

respond to the truth creates an uncomfortability in the man.

RT. HON. WILLIAM E. GLADSTONE | TYRESE GIBSON

 

No two men are alike. "We are all imperfect. Still, we can be great". But "commitment isn't cheap."

 

 

The average human being likes to believe he or she is "good". But "sometimes the worst evil is done by good people who do not know that they are not good."

 

 

Speaking from the heart, from experience, and from careful observation though, when it comes to *serious* relationships and issues of both the human connection and the human condition there are certain constants men of good faith share:

 

 

Golden (Unwritten) Rules

Respect, consideration, honesty, and reciprocity are just the minimum. A good man's ability to prove he is indeed good can easily be limited or adversely impacted by specific circumstances. For example, bad influence — be they friends and/or family, women of bad faith such as gold diggers, *certain* Russian millionaire hunters and *certain* Chinese and Asian women of the ilk described here, say.

 

 

Or habits like a woman's self-centerednessa double standard often overlooked.

 

 

However flawed, some men *do* have standards. And taking time to understand and respect them is as strategically important to the relationship as coming into a man's life and hoping to (own) keep him as *the* object of your emotional security.

 

 

Von Goethe was therefore saying nothing new about men when he opined: "No two men see the world exactly alike...The same man will, indeed, often see and judge the same things differently on different occasions: early convictions must give way to more mature ones. Nevertheless, may not the opinions that a man holds and expresses withstand all trials, if he only remains true to himself and others?"

 

 

Put simply, no so-called "lady" or "good woman/female" should ever assume a good man is there to be conned, used or pushed around at will. Only wimpish (虚弱的人, 懦怯者, 病弱者) "good" men (rich or poor) often are:!:

 

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Monogamous men do exist but for the most part, most of my experience is that men whether they're married or in

relationships are moving around still having some fun. Men are out on the street telling random women the truth. Most women

want to hear the truth but they're very uncomfortable with the truth and the way they react and respond to the truth

creates an uncomfortability in the man.

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Comment by THiNKTaNK on February 5, 2011 at 1:29am

Nah...come on.

Or to quote Russell Peters: "Be a man"  :-)

Comment by ABM on February 5, 2011 at 12:47am
Steve Harvey!  I appreciate the entertainment.  As far as the topic at hand...no comment lol.
Comment by THiNKTaNK on February 3, 2011 at 8:14pm

Oh God...

That's a lot of pressure, man...

I regret making such a promise:!:

Comment by Stefan on February 3, 2011 at 7:05pm

OK, I am waiting.

Comment by THiNKTaNK on February 2, 2011 at 11:04pm

Dude, you gotta be kiddin' me:-)

Let me work on that and get back to ya...

I need exactly 80years and 2months.

Is that alright with you? This after all is China:!:

Comment by Stefan on February 2, 2011 at 7:04pm
I have one question.
Where can you find good women here in Beijing?

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